Female Masturbation - Is It All About a Sex Toy?

Natalie Gordelier banishes some of the popular myths concerning female masturbation...

1. The best way is the way most women start which is by using their hands. Usually they orgasm by stimulating the clitoris. So make sure you will not be disturbed and can fully relax as you explore with your fingers your genital area. If something feels good then experiment with various rhythms and pressure.

2. Your imagination can be a great turn on so try reading erotic fiction or sexual films and maybe create in your mind your own scenario that makes you feel sexy while you explore and get to know your body. You may play certain music or wear something that turns you on, this is for you so spoil yourself with any textures that you like the feel of, if it gets you feeling hot then it is worth the effort.

3. When you feel ready or you are having difficulty orgasming, you can add a sex toy like a vibrator to your masturbation. You will probably be surprised by the intensity of your orgasm and how quickly you get one. You may even experience multiple orgasms. There are lots of vibes to choose from although a basic classic shaped slender vibrator or a vibrating bullet may be a good starter but there are G Spot vibrators, Anal dildos, nipple clamps, stimulating lubricants and gels the choices are there when you are ready.

4. If you are using a vibrator for the first time experiment by running over different parts of your body like your nipples as you do not need to rush into penetrating or straight to your clitoris. Take time to enjoy the various speeds and pulsations it may offer. 5. Don't be afraid to make noise or move if that feels right as you want to completely give yourself to the experience if you are to fully enjoy it. Obviously it is important to choose your surroundings so that you are not worried about being interupted or overheard. This is your private time.

So you may end up with an exciting treasure trove of sex toys and stimulators. You may find that the relaxed feeling that exploring your body alone without the pressure of your partner has created a new women going out armed with a new sexual vitality. Not to mention the relaxed feeling that you get as your body releases the endorphins (feel good hormones) into your system after masturbation. The liberating feeling you can get from knowing your body and the improvement that makes to your sex life with your partner.

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